Signs You’re Not Ready For a Relationship
There may be circumstances when you just can’t fall in true love with a person, even if you really like them a lot. So if you’re ready for a new relationship, but aren’t really sure, here are some clues that you might want to check if everything is perfect for a good start:
You are still dealing with your past emotional scars
If you are still dealing with your past break-up, you need to get emotionally healed before starting a new relationship. Tell yourself that you are done with past. Set yourself free and move ahead to pursue your interest in life.
You are spending more time to impress other than really focusing on your interests
If you are willing to change everything you are for the sake of the other person that is an issue. If you’re spending more time thinking of impressing a person on next date rather focusing on your interest, it’s a sign you need to switch your track. So give yourself a reason to feel proud and accomplished and focus on ways you can make yourself a better person.
You feel like you need to be in a relationship and you want to save some one
If your happiness is dependent on other person or on a relationship, it’s completely wrong. Don’t keep looking for person to complete you, instead, take some time; learn to be happy on your own before you look for a new person. Also don’t seek a relationship in order to save a person. That isn’t a reason to date someone!
You think having the right partner will solve all your problems
You won’t be able to do your part in a relationship, if you expect a person to solve your problems, instead of battling yourself through your tough times. It’s unrealistic to hope that someone else is going to put their 100% to magically erase your current woe and make your life beautiful. When you’re not happy with your life, you’re the one who needs to change it for the better, preferably before inviting anyone else.
You are afraid to be alone in life
Few are afraid of being alone in life that they seek a new relationship which is another important sign that you are not looking for a true relationship.
You don’t find them trustworthy
May be you have major trust issues due to any terrible experiences you had in your past relationship. Whatever the reason is, it is one definite sign that you are not ready for a new relationship. Trust is the foundation of a perfect relationship, so if you can’t learn to trust them, you definitely aren’t ready for a serious relationship with them.
Do you face any of these signs? If yes, take some time to set yourself free, learn and understand more about yourself, focus on your interest until you truly feel you’re ready to take that next step in life.
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